Upsetting them so much to the point that they’re not talking to you, looking your way.. etc.
And the worst part about it, it’s completely your fault.
Well, instead of letting a good thing go to waste, whether you’re in a committed relationship or not, I’m here to offer some tips that just might help you and your loved one get back on good terms.
DON’T COME ON TOO STRONG- What I mean by this is, if you and your significant other have just gotten into a huge argument, don’t be all in their face kissing, hugging, etc. That confuses them. Don’t force them into reconciling with you so soon. Besides, no matter how much a person may love and care about you, your constant presence/affection can annoy them. Your best bet is to follow their lead.
KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS- This is an old school tactic that always works in most situations.. My grandma used to tell me that you catch more bees with sugar than shit. That being said, be sweet. Be thoughtful. People love it when you do little things for them. So if you know your boo loves apple juice, buy them an apple juice every morning before school… I’m not saying you should cash out, but noticing their favorite things puts them in the mindset that you care.. and you definitely wanna make things right.
REALIZE THAT THE BALL IS IN THEIR COURT- or let them think that it is… However, if you’re the one in the wrong, then it really IS in their court. Now if you’re as impatient as I am, then following their lead will be a hard thing to do… however, when it comes to matters of the heart or dealing with hurt feelings, the other party calls the shots. If they choose not to ever speak to you again, or be with you; then you have no choice but to accept it, and remember what NOT to do when dealing with someone you love.
Those tips should help, but if the situation is SUPER bad, then there is only one thing left to do…
SEDUCE THEM- When all else fails, give up the goodies…in whatever way you feel comfortable, if you catch my drift…. Seriously, only use this tactic when you’ve tried all 3 above… Call him/her up. Tell them you wanna see them.. Set up a time and place. And pull out all methods of seduction, NO TALKING.
When you do it, sex them like your life depends on it. This act should exude passion. Say all the right things, do all the right moves…there should be no holds barred when it comes to your loved one.
Now if those things don’t work… I don’t know what to tell you….Except…
HAVE PATIENCE- If things are meant to be fixed, then it will. Affection won’t fix problems. Time and communication will. The more time you give&the better you communicate, the better things can possibly be.
That doesn’t mean wait around forever tho!
Take these tips and run with them, and for once I’ll be taking my own advice..
Happy making up…. 😉