Some of my exes have the common problem of not understanding that just because I forgive you of all your mistakes, does not mean I would like to be with you in a relationship again.. Actually, the reasons I forgive are far from that.
When I’m with someone, my love for them is limitless and unconditional. I understand that the perfect male doesn’t exist, for I am not a perfect female.
I think if more people understood that, many wouldn’t be put on a unrealistic pedestal, and more would learn how to love someone, flaws and all.
Anyways. The quickest way to mess up with a person is too
- or Become comfortable /and or unappreciative.
At least that’s how you can mess up with me.
Now with me, you get 1-3 times for errors…. But if you cross me one too many times, then nothing in this world will possess me to get back with you, no matter how many times you beg, cry, and plead.
I’ll be petty, bitter and any other adjective you can think of when it comes to mending a bruised ego and broken heart. But eventually, I forgive. And move on with life.
2 reasons to Forgive someone who hurt you:
HOLDING GRUDGES IS POINTLESS- When you hold a grudge, that person looms control over you, and honestly, that’s the worst thing you can allow a person to do. Just let it go, no matter how bad it is… I’m not saying right away, because mending a heart and getting over a situation takes time…just don’t still be upset at the same shit 20 years later.
SOMETHING BETTER WILL COME- When you let go of that grudge, watch how positive life turns out. Someone who appreciates you, respects you, and loves you will come along…. Don’t put the mistakes of what one person did on an innocent person… Doing that will cause you to miss out on your blessing. There’s always an upgrade for a situation. Remember that.
That being said, I have no grudges or anger towards my exes.
Even though the love is gone, the respect is still there.
I forgive simply because life is too short….
BUT I STILL DON’T WANT YOU. 😉