The Make-Up Process

Everyone has been in the predicament of upsetting their boo.

Upsetting them so much to the point that they’re not talking to you, looking your way.. etc.
And the worst part about it, it’s completely your fault.

Well, instead of letting a good thing go to waste, whether you’re in a committed relationship or not, I’m here to offer some tips that just might help you and your loved one get back on good terms.

DON’T COME ON TOO STRONG- What I mean by this is, if you and your significant other have just gotten into a huge argument, don’t be all in their face kissing, hugging, etc. That confuses them. Don’t force them into reconciling with you so soon. Besides, no matter how much a person may love and care about you, your constant presence/affection can annoy them. Your best bet is to follow their lead.
KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS- This is an old school tactic that always works in most situations.. My grandma used to tell me that you catch more bees with sugar than shit. That being said, be sweet. Be thoughtful. People love it when you do little things for them. So if you know your boo loves apple juice, buy them an apple juice every morning before school… I’m not saying you should cash out, but noticing their favorite things puts them in the mindset that you care.. and you definitely wanna make things right.
REALIZE THAT THE BALL IS IN THEIR COURT- or let them think that it is… However, if you’re the one in the wrong, then it really IS in their court. Now if you’re as impatient as I am, then following their lead will be a hard thing to do… however, when it comes to matters of the heart or dealing with hurt feelings, the other party calls the shots. If they choose not to ever speak to you again, or be with you; then you have no choice but to accept it, and remember what NOT to do when dealing with someone you love.
Those tips should help, but if the situation is SUPER bad, then there is only one thing left to do…
SEDUCE THEM- When all else fails, give up the goodies…in whatever way you feel comfortable, if you catch my drift…. Seriously, only use this tactic when you’ve tried all 3 above… Call him/her up. Tell them you wanna see them.. Set up a time and place. And pull out all methods of seduction, NO TALKING.
When you do it, sex them like your life depends on it. This act should exude passion. Say all the right things, do all the right moves…there should be no holds barred when it comes to your loved one.
Now if those things don’t work… I don’t know what to tell you….Except…
HAVE PATIENCE-  If things are meant to be fixed, then it will. Affection won’t fix problems. Time and communication will. The more time you give&the better you communicate, the better things can possibly be. 
That doesn’t mean wait around forever tho!
Take these tips and run with them, and for once I’ll be taking my own advice..
Happy making up…. 😉

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Don’t Do It.

RAPE (noun, verb) – The unlawful compelling of a person through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse.

(2.)— Any act of of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person.

My heart goes out to the 15 year old girl who got raped yesterday morning.. IN BROAD DAYLIGHT, RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET FROM MY SCHOOL.

Society teaches us, “Don’t Get Raped” …so we’re expected not to dress, act, talk, walk a certain way, because if we do, we’ll get raped.

Society will look down on this girl, and say/think “Well she probably brought it on herself”, or some other ignorant shit like that.

Society instills in us, DON’T GET RAPED, but what happened to DON’T RAPE PEOPLE!?

As a young woman in a sexually active world, I’ve never understood why a person would want to rape another person……………….
Rape is a heinous crime, a horrible crime and the WORST crime, right next to murder.

I’ve never understood why a person would want to rape the next, especially since sex is such a natural act, and most people give it away so freely, there’s NO reason to rape.

The world is screwed up out here people….Protect yourselves, and may God protect you too.

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Kween K Presents *Katie Got Bandz* *KWEEN K EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW*

A while ago, while searching around on Youtube, I came across a particular artist that really intrigued me. Fast forward to this past weekend, and I now had the pleasure of interviewing KATIE GOT BANDZ face to face….

Watch as me and miss “I need a hitta” chop it up about all parts of her music and even a little bit of her personal life…..

By the way, Who Is Katie? The Mixtape Hosted By DJ Hustlenomics drops March 17th, 2012 which also happens to be my birthday ^________________^.

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There’s A Thin Line Between Love and Stupidity

Facebook statuses and tweets from various people I know and don’t know, all prove one thing to me:


Now, even though I am single, I have been in a few relationships that have taught me a lot…. And I will say this…. I have been in the same boat as you all before, and probably in even worse boats… But the difference between you all and me, I learned from my past situations…. YOU DUMMIES HAVEN’T.

To you people in these toxic relationships, let me break down a few things to you about love.

Love Shouldn’t…..

  • Make you cry.
  • Make you feel lonely. 
  • Make you feel insecure.
  • Make you feel incomplete.
  • Hurt you physically.
  • Make you feel guilty.
  • Hurt you sexually.
  • Abuse you emotionally.
  • Toy with you mentally.
  • Hinder you as a person.
  • Make you feel like a piece of property.
  • Make you feel as if you’re not worth being faithful to.
  • Make you want to end your life.
  • Make you indecisive.
  • Make you suspicious.

Now,I am not the most religious person in the world, and I can’t even tell you the last time I picked up a Bible, but…. there is this one particular Bible scripture that sticks out to me about love.

In 1st Corinthians Chapter 14 Verse 4-7 it reads:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered. It keeps no records of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves.”

I put that scripture into this blog because every time I look around and see these young couples “in love” I get sad because in my opinion, it’s the furthest thing from that.

How are you in love when he hits you?
How are you in love when she disrespects you?
How are you in love when he makes you feel insecure?
How are you in love when he doesn’t support you?
How are you in love when she cheats on you?
How are you in love when you never learned how to love yourself?

The problem with young people, older people and even OLD people is that people try to hold on to things that should’ve been over a long time ago. 

I believe people come into your life as seasons,or people come into your life to teach you something. When the season is over, or the lesson is learned, it’s time to let go.

People don’t like to let go tho.

I hate the excuse “We go thru _______ and I put up with __________ because I love him/her”


That makes no type of logical sense! (in my opinion)

No dummy, you’re N O T in love anymore, you’re stupid and even worse than being stupid is the fact you’re attached,and you don’t w a n t to let go of them out of fear that you don’t believe there’s anything better. So you settle, hoping and praying that the representative (not person, but representative)that you fell in love with comes back….

Not knowing, that person will never, ever, come back.

There is indeed a thin line between love and stupidity…. and many of you have crossed the line a long time ago.

Donnell Jones sang it the best “When you love someone, you just don’t treat them bad”

So this is the point of the blog where I’m supposed to give some advice right?

Too bad I don’t do that. I’ve tried to help friends, family members and others who find themselves in this kind of situation, but I realized…

I can’t help anyone who doesn’t want to help themselves.

You can talk to someone all you want, but at the end of the day, they’ll do what they feel is best for them, no matter how you may feel.

Life is supposed to be a learning experience anyway right.? 
Let the trials and tribulations of love be your teacher.

Love VS. Stupidity….

Which side are you on?

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You’re N O T Wifey Material

Sorry ladies, but a good sex game isn’t enough to keep a man around anymore.

See, in my opinion “wifey material” doesn’t necessarily mean that a guy will actually propose to you and give you that fantasy wedding when you’re older.

I think that ”wifey material” just simply means that a guy likes you enough to keep you around for a while..

However, it kills me when a hoodrat literally S C R E A M S “GURL HE STAYIN’ AROUND CUZ I GOT DAT WET-WET! IM WIFEY!”

This is the face I make —-> -____________________________________________-

And this is what I think —-> Girl what?!

Personally, I feel like if a female only has sex to offer a guy, then who the hell would “wife” that?

Now, there is nothing wrong with being sexual, but relationships, and even real-life marriages are built on way better standards than that.

Here’s a list of ways to be kept around and/or ”wifed” 
  • Be supportive. Men love women who support them to the fullest. No matter what, you have to be his biggest fan, and most positive influence.
  • Be loyal. No guy likes an unfaithful female. If that’s the case, stay single. Being loyal can be one of the most attractive attribute a woman can possess.
  • Don’t be a gold digger. I’m sorry but I feel like if a girl is constantly in a dude’s pocket, yet does NOTHING TO DESERVE IT.. you need to be cancelled. End of discussion
  • Love unconditionally, not stupidly. Love a man flaws and all, there should never be a desire to change them. If they’re really the one, they’ll want to please you on their own..

Sex is an important factor. But it’s not the end-all,

 be all. Besides, pussy gets old.
If you’re a female and you can possess those above qualities, maybe you’ll get a RING on your finger and upgrade from being “wifey” to a person’s WIFE.
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More Than Insanity: Hitz Da Calamity

I live for fresh lyricism. And when I speak about Hitz, or better known to most as Hitz Da Calamity, I’d say his lyricism is something fresh, something unique, and something never done before.
I had the pleasure of interviewing the 19 year old underground artist, and chopped it up with him as we discussed where he comes from, what inspires him, and his future projects…
             Enough of me talking tho. Click on the link and see for yourself.

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Would You Date Your Daughter?

What I’m about to write is gonna offend a majority of males. But only the guilty get upset right? Right. 
Being attracted to younger women is nothing new.
In fact it’s always gonna be like that.
Doesn’t mean it’s RIGHT tho.
I propose a question: How young is too young?
In my opinion, If a man likes a female that is 5-7 years younger than him, then it’s okay.
Note that I said MAN  preferably someone around like 25, etc.
I don’t mean that it’s okay for a 20 year old to lust after a 12 year old or something.
Unfortunately, that’s the type of shit I see everyday,and pretty much all my life.
In my opinion, if you  l u s t after a young woman, and you KNOW she’s no where near legal, you sir, have a problem.
And just because she’s 18 STILL doesn’t make it okay. 
Age does not have shit to do with maturity.. 
For example, what does a 28-38 year old have in common with an 18 year old?

I think men do this in order to manipulate and control the poor, clueless, young girls.
Thinking in a man’s mindset, It’s easier to tell a young girl how to think, act, dress, sex you, etc than a grown ass woman with some common sense.
Unfortunately, a LOT of young females DO NOT have common sense when it comes to dealing with older guys.
What’s even more unfortunate, is that the best way for a female to learn this, is from experience.
They don’t understand that a real relationship can’t be built from that.
They don’t understand that all they want is sex.
They don’t understand that all they want is for someone to be all under them that’s easy to control mind body and spirit.

I feel like if a “man” wants all that, then he should get a damn dog….. Leave these young ass girls alone, you fucking pedophiles.
At the end of this, I just wanna ask a few questions to all the men who like these young girls….
Who you date your daughter? Would you fuck her? Would you let friends date her? Fuck her?

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What’s A Drill Anyways?

 Today I had the random pleasure of figuring out what a drill was today.

Well, at least the version Fatzmack so eloquently told me over the phone.

According to him, he said a ”drill” is


In hood nigga terms, a ”drill” is RIDIN’ DOWN ON THE OPPS, AND BLOWIN’ AT THEY ASS”

So for those who didn’t get a clear and concise definition on my drill music blog post, I’d say drill music is…. MUSIC THAT TELLS THE STORY OF DOING A DRILL. OR RAPPING ABOUT THAT PARTICULAR LIFESTYLE.

Anyways, coming from one of the originators of the word drill,  here a few videos ya’ll can check out to gain a further understanding.


 R.I.P. Pac Man
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Evolution of Drill Music

“This shit lame!”

“They not even lyrical!”

“These muthafuckas ratchet!”

“This shit raw!”

“What the fuck is a drill anyways?”

Whether people like it or not, there is a music craze taking over the city, and its called drill music.

Hood ass, ghetto ass, popular music made by familiar faces in the city of Chicago….

What’s even better? The people who make this music are mostly under the age of 21.

A lot of people disagree with this type of music, but I personally salute them. I salute them because these teens are doing something productive with their lives, and somehow beating the statistics society places against them. To me, making music seems like their outlet.

And what a popular outlet it is.

Everywhere a person might go, You hear people rapping their lyrics, singing their hooks, and imitating the behavior they see in the various videos.

The popularity of these artists fascinates me. Even the lifestyles they live. The shit they rap about. ALL of it is fascinating.

Think about it like this: Everyone needs a voice. And even if you don’t agree with what they’re saying, you can’t deny they’re talking about something real. Would you rather them be out actually doing a ”drill” or just making music, having fun and living life?

If all else fails, at least the beats are catchy.

Below, I’m going to post some of the music and videos I’ve stumbled upon, that I like…. Hope yall like it too. Support ’em. If you don’t support ’em, at least respect ’em. 

Welcome to Drill Music…………………….

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